UnCommitted - For Jesus

Your commitments shape your life more than anything else. They can define or destroy you. But for every commitment there is also something that we must “Un-Commit” from. In our Christian journey, it is sometimes harder to UnCommit, to set aside something for the sake of Christ. We will naturally commit to the things that we perceive to be most important. - Pastor Dave

Open: Have you ever felt stuck by a commitment you made that you wish you could get out of? What made you commit to it? How did you eventually get out of it?

Read: Luke 14; Luke 9

Discuss:

1. In Luke 14, Jesus is invited to the home of a religious ruler. While there, Jesus does something pretty interesting; he heals someone on the Sabbath. Why does Jesus do this? What point is Jesus attempting to make?

2. In Luke 14:7-14, Jesus shares two parables related to feasts and banquets. What do these parables mean? Describe the place of honor in the Jewish culture of the day? How would Jesus’ parables be in direct contrast to their understanding of banquets? In what ways do these examples run perpendicular to our viewpoints today? 

3. In Jesus’ parable in Luke 14:15-24, the invitees make excuses for their planned absences. Describe these excuses: In what ways do we make excuses in our commitments for Christ? What does it mean that there is always something to “uncommit” to when we make a commitment? How have you seen this true in your life?

4. In what ways must we “uncommit” in order to commit to Christ? How does Jesus describe commitment in Luke 14:25-33? Does this type of commitment scare you? Why or why not?

5. How do our desires reveal our commitments? Is it true that we naturally commit to the things we perceive as most important?  Describe the following statement: “When God becomes our greatest desire all other commitments fall into proper place.” How have you seen this true in your life?

Pray: Pray that you would have the courage to “uncommit” from the things in life that are holding you back from following Christ fully.  

Memorize/Meditate: So therefore, any one of you who does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple. Luke 14:33

Echoes of Hope: The Son

No matter what kind of problems and struggles you are facing right now, no matter what kind of season of darkness and pain you might be in, do not abandon hope. As Christians, our hope is still alive because…Immanuel, God is with us. - Pastor Dave

Open: Describe a time you felt absolutely helpless: How did you respond? In what ways did you attempt to fix the situation?     

Read: Isaiah 6-9; Matthew 1-2; Colossians 1 

Discuss:  

1. We have all had moments when we have felt helpless and hopeless. Why does the Christmas season seem to exacerbate these feelings? In what ways should these feelings actually connect us all the more to the Christmas story?  

2. Describe the hopeless situation in Isaiah 7: What is Ahaz’s, King of Judah, reaction? How does “trembled like trees of a forest shaking in the wind” beautifully describe hopeless situations?  

3. How did Ahaz attempt to fix his situation? In what ways do we freeze, fade or fix our situations? What is your natural default? Despite knowing God's promises to take care of us, why do we look to others and to ourselves instead of God? How have you seen this in your life or in the lives of those you know? 

4. God calls Isaiah to bring a message of hope. How does God, through Isaiah, taunt the enemies of Judah?  Describe the four loaded words in Isaiah 7:4: Why is it so difficult to believe at times that God is bigger than our fears? How should the presence of God cause us to stand firm in our faith regardless of the situation?  

5. God graciously offers a sign to Ahaz. What does the fact that he rejects the sign tell us about Ahaz’s character? Describe the sign: How is this sign connected to the Christmas story? 

6. How should “God with us” and “God in us” transform our perspective of life? In Colossians 1:27 Paul says, “Christ in you the hope of glory.” What is the hope of glory? 

Pray: Pray that in the most difficult moments of your life, you will stand confidently in the hope of Christ’s presence with you and in you.   

Memorize/Meditate: All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet: "Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel" (which means, God with us). Matthew 1:22-23 

Echoes of Hope: Humble Child

Christmas is not something that God hid until Jesus came in the flesh. Immediately following the sinful fall, God gave a hope-filled message that promised deliverance from the curse. By coming as a humble child, God made Christmas the eviction notice of the curse of sin and death.

Open: Have you ever experienced a time when having knowledge about something that was going to happen in the future kept you confident in a present difficult moment? Describe this experience:

Read: Genesis 3; Philippians 2; 2 Corinthians 8

Discuss:

1. When you hear the phrase, “Christmas begins with a curse,” what comes to mind? Is this accurate? Why or why not? Describe the curse in Genesis 3:

2. What do you make of the fact that God curses the serpent directly, but not man or woman? What was cursed in the domains of man and woman? In what ways do we experience the weight of the curse today?

3. God gave the promise of a coming curse-breaker before giving the consequence of sin. What does this tell us about God’s character, specifically as it relates to us? Describe the promise to “crush” the serpent’s head: How is this the first declaration of the gospel?

4. Why don’t you think God destroyed Satan in the garden? In what ways can God not undo sin without undoing us? How is God’s longsuffering a picture of His desire for the salvation of many?

5. Christmas came in the most unexpected way. How did Christ humble Himself to come at Christmas? In other words, what was the perspective of Christmas in heaven?

6. How should our hope in the end of the curse cause us to live differently? What does it mean to “have this mind in you that was in Christ Jesus?” Pray that you would be so overwhelmed with God’s compassion for you that you would be compelled to fulfill God’s commission through you.

Pray: Pray for opportunities to talk about God’s compassion with others.

Memorize/Meditate: Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus…Philippians 2:5 O

Jonah: When God's Mission Hurts

The reason God seeks sinners, saves sinners, and sends sinners is because God loves sinners. There is no other object of worship who loves sinners like God does. This love is our calling. Unfortunately, too often we are more concerned with our comfort than we are God’s commission. - Pastor Dave

Open: Have you ever felt so compelled to do something that nothing could have stopped you? What was it and why did you feel so strongly about it?

Read: Jonah 4; 2 Corinthians 5:16-20

1. How is God’s capacity of grace greater than our capacity to sin? In what ways is this observed throughout the book of Jonah?

2. At the end of the story, we find Jonah sitting outside the city of Nineveh. What was he expecting to happen? What does this “wait and see” posture tell us about his view of God’s salvation of Nineveh? Does Jonah ever answer God’s question?

3. God sends three illustrations to confront Jonah’s displeasure. Describe each of them: What does it tell us about Jonah that the only time we see him exceedingly happy is when God provides a plant for shade? How does our comfort get in the way of God’s call to share His compassion with a lost world?

4. The word “appointed” is repeated over and over again in the story of Jonah. God appointed a storm, fish, plant, worm, and wind. How are each of these an act of God’s gracious hand toward Jonah? How can discomfort keep us focused on our purpose and mission?

5. If we have experienced God’s compassion, how should we be compelled to accomplish His mission? In what ways do you see a superior attitude toward sinners; an inferior grasp of God’s love; and an ulterior purpose for living in Christianity today?

6. What do you make of the ending of the book of Jonah? Why do you think it ends so abruptly? How is this an invitation to fulfill God’s commission in our world today?

Pray: Pray that you would be so overwhelmed with God’s compassion for you that you would be compelled to fulfill God’s commission through you. Pray for opportunities to talk about God’s compassion with others.

Memorize/Meditate: Your righteousness is like the mountains of God; your judgments are like the great deep; man and beast you save, O Lord. Psalms 36:6

Jonah: God Being God

The more we understand the consistency of God’s character, the more we are consistently overwhelmed by joy regardless of our circumstances. - Pastor Dave

Open: Describe a time you were angry: Have you ever been angry with God? Explain:

Read: Jonah 4; Exodus 32-34

Discuss:

1. If the story of Jonah was about Nineveh it would have ended at Chapter 3. What makes Chapter 4 so confusing and awkward? What do you make of Jonah’s reaction to the repentance of Nineveh and the mercy of God? How has this story been more about Jonah than Nineveh?

2. It says that Jonah was “displeased” with God. What does “displeased” actually mean? Why is Jonah angry? What about God’s character makes Jonah angry? What are our default responses to emotional moments? Are you a type of person who denies, hides or reveals your emotions? What does Jonah do?

3. How is prayer a great way to deal with our emotions? God doesn’t fault Jonah for his feelings. Notice the terms connected to “I” (“I said”; “I fled”; “I knew”; “Take my life”). What does this tell us about Jonah’s thoughts concerning God’s character?

4. The beautiful phrase “You are a gracious God and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love…” shows up as a type of creed for His people. Describe the circumstances in Exodus 32-34 that give us God’s description of Himself with these terms: How can we know God’s character, but not submit to God’s character in moments of frustration?

5. God responds with a simple yet profound question. Where are the areas of your life right now that could leave you questioning God’s character? How are our responses a reflection of our hearts?

Pray: Pray that you would embrace God’s faithful, consistent character even at times you might not understand what He is doing.

Memorize/Meditate: The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love. Psalm 103:8

Jonah: Sum of All Fear

We all have things we are afraid of. And our responses can vary. But when we change the object of our fear to God, it changes the response of our fear to obedience. It’s the fear of God that sets us free from the fear of our circumstances. - Pastor Dave

Open: Have you ever been afraid of something? Describe what made you afraid and how you responded:

Read: Jonah 1; Genesis 3; Psalm 56:3; Luke 1:50

Discuss:

1. How is fear the basis of running from God? How did fear play an integral part of the sinful fall in Genesis 3? In what ways was Jonah afraid of God’s call?

2. How do our responses reveal our beliefs about fearful situations? Has there ever been a time you had a wrong response to fear? Describe how the sailors demonstrated a wrong fear and a wrong response in the beginning of Jonah: How does our tendency to take control illustrate wrong responses to fear?

3. Describe how Jonah had the right fear but wrong response: Describe God’s sovereignty: In what ways do you know that God is in control but fail to give Him control? Do you agree with this statement? “We believe that God is in control but spend most of our lives trying to get out of His control.”

4. How does Jonah’s disobedience reveal a defective fear of God? What is the difference between being afraid of God and fearing God? How do the sailors illustrate this truth (see verses 5, 10, and 16)?

5. In what ways does God “flip the focus” of our fear? Was Jonah attempting to be the hero when he told the sailors to throw him overboard? Why or why not? What are the areas of your life where you need to be less afraid and have more fear of God?

Pray: Pray for a healthy fear of the circumstances in your life and that you would respond with intentional worship and deeper commitment.

Memorize/Meditate: When I am afraid, I put my trust in you. Psalms 56:3

Jonah: Storms of Grace

God is so committed to connecting His purpose to our lives that He graciously uses storms to keep us focused on His call. These storms have a way of revealing where our confidence actually lies. So much so that God is committed to destroying every ship that would take me away from Him. - Pastor Dave

Open: Have you ever felt like running away from home or actually did run away from home? Why or Why not? Describe the details:   

Read: Jonah 1; Proverbs 3:11-12 

Discuss:  

1. Is it true that God knows us better than we know ourselves? How have you seen this in your own life? Is it equally true that God knows how to reach us at just the right moment? In what ways have you observed this truth in your life?  

2. How does verse 4 begin a shift of Divine interruptions? What does this tell us about God’s plan to get our attention? Has God ever used Divine interruptions to get your attention? Describe some of these:  

3. What did God use to get Jonah’s attention? In what ways does it seem that God intentionally interrupts areas that we put our confidence in? Describe the power of the storm in Jonah 1?  

3. Describe the contrast between the reactions of the sailors and Jonah: How do our choices affect those around us? Why is it that people who run from God are often the last to make the connection that God is the one trying to get their attention? How do we naturally respond to these storms through logical solutions?  

4. How could Jonah be asleep during this great storm? What does this tell us about Jonah’s disobedience? Who has God used in your life to wake you up when you are running from God? How is this entire story a picture of God’s grace? Describe E+R=O (Events + Responses = Outcomes):  

Pray: Pray that you would see the storms of your life as opportunities to respond to God’s call of obedience. 

Memorize/Meditate: My son, do not despise the Lord 's discipline or be weary of his reproof, for the Lord reproves him whom he loves, as a father the son in whom he delights. Proverbs 3:11-12

Jonah: Hiding Somewhere, Running Nowhere

Like Jonah, we all have a propensity to run and hide when God’s plan doesn’t seem to make sense. And oddly enough, there will always be a “ship heading to Tarshish.” But we learn that the God of great expenditure pursues selfish fugitives. Sin is overcome by grace; desperation is overwhelmed by deliverance; and great sin runs into a greater Savior. - Pastor Dave

Open: Have you ever played hide and seek? Where was a favorite place to hide? Why?  

Read: Jonah 1; 2 Kings 14; Nahum 3:1-4; Psalm 139:1-12 

Discuss:  

1. Have you ever tried to run or hide from God? Why or Why not? Describe what running from God looks like: What were the circumstances that caused you to run from God?  

2. Describe Jonah’s resume: How was his success as a prophet unique? How does this reality fit into the story of Jonah as a whole?  

3. Describe the relationship between Israel and Assyria (Ninevah): Why did Jonah go to such great lengths to avoid going to Ninevah? What does it say to you that a city like Ninevah was a part of God’s plan? 

4. Notice the use of words like “Arise” (vs. 2); “come up” (vs. 2); “rose” (vs. 3); “went down” (vs. 3). Describe the use of these words in the text. How do these words describe Jonah’s intentional disobedience? 

5. All of us have “that thing” that could cause us to run. For Jonah it was Ninevah...What is it or what could it be in your life that would cause you to run and hide? 

Pray: Pray that you would turn from the areas where you are running from God and rekindle your relationship afresh and anew. 

Memorize/Meditate: Where shall I go from your Spirit? Or where shall I flee from your presence? Psalm 139:7